As we get closer to the holiday season, we notice more and more family get-togethers popping up on the calendar. It is no secret that with these reunions, however, comes some uncomfortable conversation. People come to dread the inevitable “How’s school going?” and “Are you in a relationship?” questions. Keep reading to discover some ways to make these conversations not only doable but exciting, too!
If you are the one starting the conversation it’s always a safe option to discuss something that excites you! There’s no guarantee that this conversation will last long if the other person doesn’t share this interest, but you never know until you try! Bring up your favorite sports, activities, etc and see where the wind takes you.
For those times when you aren’t the starter of the discussion, try curving the conversation into something you both can add to. Typically the awkward element stems from the interrogating feeling of being the receiver of all the questions. By asking some questions yourself, you can turn the interrogation into a double-sided conversation.
Another great way to spice-up a discussion is with a joke! Sometimes all people need to break the ice is a good laugh, and you can be the one to spark that. Whether it be a thanksgiving themed joke such as “Why does the pilgrim’s pants always fall down? Because they wear their buckles on their hats!” or just a classic joke like “Why do sweaters hang out together? They’re close-knit”, this is a sure way to liven up the conversation!
Finally, you can’t go wrong with a controversial topic! Although this can bring the stress rates up, it guarantees a more interesting conversation than the same old questions. Especially if this is something you feel strongly about, it can bring emotions up and pique interest. If you go with this approach, though, make sure no feelings get hurt!
Family get-togethers are definitely what you make them. If you find yourself a little bored, give some of these a try! These new conversation ideas allow you to look forward to all the events that are upcoming in this winter season!
